FAQ - Frequently Asked Questions


Who is welcome?
All persons (age 19 and above) interested in adult kink are welcome to attend. We open our doors to all gender identifications and sexual preferences.  Furthermore, scene preferences (e.g. Top, bottom, switch, submissive, slave, Master, Sir, etc...)  If you are interested or involved in learning more about kink and/or BDSM, this event is for you!  The safe, fun, friendly atmosphere is fostered and designed to welcome everyone.

I have never been to an event like this, and I am a little nervous...

Everyone, including the AIS Staff, has been nervous, anxious, or even a little scared trying something new. But don't worry, this event has a relaxed friendly environment and an orientation on friday night for people who haven't been to events like this before. We discuss ideas, concerns, curiousities, and have a Q & A session after the orientation. If you have questions prior to the event, you can E-mail us or just join the AIS Yahoo Group, and post your questions - we would be glad to answer them.

Will there be single people?
Yes. There are lots of people in all forms of relationships that attend.  COPE is a great place to meet people who are like-
minded without pressure.  If have not been to an event like this, please join us for the newbie orientation/meet n greet on
Friday night. This is a great start to learning what to expect, and to discover people with similar interests.

How much money should I bring?
Enough for meals on your own at local restaurants, and save some to take advantage of the fabulous stock of our vendor
area!    

What does my Event Registration cover?
It covers admission to all activities for both nights, the classes, and access to the vendor area.  
• Event Intro for First Timers/Newbies and
Speed Meet n Mingle on Friday Night.
• Very brief Weekend Outline and Summary with a Short Keynote Presentation.
• 23 Classes on many different topics.
• Friday Play Party in our 3000 square foot Play Space.

Saturday Night Play party and access to the Sacred Space.
• The Vendor Marketplace.
• Social Area
• Silent Auction.
(It does NOT cover your transportation to the event, room service or hotel rooms)

60% Refunds are gladly given up until
August 22, 2008. After that date no refunds will be issued.

What is Pansexual?
Pansexual means that all gender orientations and sexual preferences are welcome!

What is Polyamory?
It is more than one open, fully disclosed, consensual and simultaneous relationship.  AIS openly encourages honest and
direct communication within relationships, regardless of status – monogamous, polyamorous, open, closed, etc.

Will I have to participate?
Well, buying a ticket is all the participation required.  Anything else is completely voluntary.  Remember, as an adult, you
are responsible for your own behavior, and expressing your own limits.  Everyone at the event is aware of the first rule – No
means No!  


What is a DM or PSM?
A PSM is a Play Space Monitor DM is a Dungeon Monitor. They are responsible for your safety in the Play Space and are
there to assist with difficulties, questions, and ensure safe, sane and consensual play.

What is SSC?
Our communities recognize the phrase "Safe, Sane, Consensual" as the best brief summary of the principles guiding our
practices:
• Safe is being knowledgeable about the techniques and safety concerns involved in what you are doing, and acting in
accordance with that knowledge.
• Sane is knowing the difference between fantasy and reality, and acting in accordance with that knowledge.
• Consensual is respecting the limits imposed by each participant at all times.

Is there a Dress Code?
You betcha!  Outside the COPE Area, the hotel is grandmother rule/vanilla space (meaning dress as though it would be OK
if you bumped into your grandmother in the lobby)
Inside the COPE area – dress can be anything you desire – from casual to kinky!  However, we recommend using common
sense for comfort during the class sessions.  Play parties?  Up to you – (personally we love dressing to impress!)  We have
seen everything from kilts to Kimonos, from rubber suits to tutus, to jeans and t-shirts.  Please remember to pack a wrap,
robe or cover-up to wear while walking through the public areas of the hotel.

What if I have no experience?
COPE is perfect for you! We have tracks for beginners, and a great beginner orientation on Friday night, to help you
acclimate, discover the guidelines and etiquette of the event!

What If I have lots of experience?
COPE has classes from the mild to the wild!  It is a place to share, play and learn something new – as we are all growing!  
Perhaps you can even share something you know with someone who wants to know?

Are there any restaurants around?
Yuppers!!  The area is packed with great places to dine.  There will be a map of local establishments in your registration
package.

I smoke – is this a problem?
No – there are 2 designated outside smoking areas.  Please remember there is NO SMOKING in the hotel.

I have an Ostridge as a pet, can I bring it? (It will get lonely at home)
No - No animals of any kind will be allowed in the COPE area

I like to dress up as a Dog, but you said no animals..?
We encourage animal role-play of any kind, as long as there are no non-human/real animals present.

If I can’t come, can I get a refund?
60% Refunds are gladly given up until August 22, 2008. After that date no refunds will be issued.

If I can’t come, can I give my ticket to a friend ?
No. Sorry. While we had granted Registration transfers in the past, we are no longer allowing it.

What do I need to do to register for this event?
Please Read all the rules first.  Then go to the tickets page, and purchase your ticket.  
Shortly after ticket purchase, we will send an email confirmation with the name and location of the host hotel.
It will then be your responsibility to call the hotel and make your reservation.

Will there be ticket sales at the Door?
No.  This is a private event and not open to the public, so there will be absolutely NO Ticket sales after Sept 6, 2008!

What is an Event Safeword?
In our lifestyle, we us a "safeword" to maintain and express our limits or say "Stop" during a scene – this ensures each participant can end their participation with a word or gesture.

The house safeword for Stop is "Red" or "Safeword." A DM/PSM will intervene in a scene if the Top does not respond appropriately when one of these words is used.

 

 

 

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