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BDSM - Hanky Code
History ~ The Hanky code was originally developed by gay men as a method of communicating
with potential partners in noisy bars. Today, it has been adopted by people of all orientations
who are into some form of kink, fetish or BDSM. The use of the Hanky code, also called
flagging, does not necessarily imply that a person is looking for a partner, nor that a person is
gay. It is simply a symbol of pride in one's self, and is a neat way to get a fellow perv to say,
"Hi!".  
Important note - the flagging or wearing of a specific Hanky does not imply
consent.  It does however, indicate interest and can be a great way to begin a dialog.


How to Use the Code ~ Fold the Hanky of your choice into a neat rectangle, and tuck it in one
of the rear pockets of your pants, leaving between half an inch and a full inch showing. If the
Hanky is just crammed into your pocket or worn some other way, most pervy folks will assume
that you don't intend it to mean anything.








Worn on Right
Hanky Color
Worn on Left
Common Hanky Flags
Bondage Top
Grey
Bondage Bottom
S/M Top
(sometimes heavy)
Black
S/M Bottom
(sometimes heavy)
Fisting Top
Red
Wants to be Fisted
Golden Shower Top
yellow
Golden Shower Bottom
Wants Oral Sex
Light Blue
Wants to give oral or expert at
oral
Less Common Hanky Flags
Anal Sex Top
Dark Blue
Anal Sex Bottom
Piercing Top
Purple
Piercing Bottom
Spanking (OTK) Top
Fuchsia (neon pink)
Spanking (OTK) Bottom
CBT Top
Teal Blue
CBT Bottom
Wants Nipple Play
Dark Pink
Gives Nipple play
Dildo Fetish Top
Light Pink
Dildo Fetish Bottom
Armpit Fetish Top
Magenta
Armpit Fetish bottom
Drag Queen
Lavender
Drag Queen Lover
Well-Endowed Male
(8 inches plus)
Mustard
Wants Well-endowed male
(8 inches plus)
Two (or more) looking for one
Gold
One looking for Two (or more)
Scat Top
Brown
Scat Bottom
BBW/BHM
Apricot
Chubby Chaser
Uncommon Hanky Flags
Toe Fetish Top
Coral
Toe Fetish Bottom
Cowboy Fetish Top
Rust
Cowboy Fetish Bottom
Father Fetish Top
Hunter Green
Father Fetish Bottom
Military Fetish Top
Olive Drab
Military Fetish Bottom
Food fetish/feeder Top
Lime Green
Food Fetish/Feedee Bottom
Anal Worship Top
Beige
Anal Worship Bottom
Lactation Fetish Top
Holstein (cow print)
Lactation fetish bottom
Safe sex Top
Black/white checkered
Safe Sex Bottom
Shaving fetish Top
Red/white stripe
Shaving Fetish Bottom
Teacher/Student Fetish Top
Brown Corduroy
Teacher/Student Bottom
Muscle Fetish Top
Gold Lame
Muscle Fetish Bottom
Video Fetish Top
Black Velvet
Video Fetish bottom
Voyeur
White Velvet
Exhibitionist
Tattoo Fetish Top
Leopard print
Tattoo fetish Bottom
Cuddling Fetish Top
Teddy bear Print
Cuddling fetish bottom
Outdoor fetish Top
Mosquito Netting
Outdoor Fetish bottom
Bathhouse Fetish Top
Terry Cloth
Bathhouse Fetish Bottom
Scent Fetish Top
Kleenex
Scent Fetish Bottom
Open minded/anything goes
Top
Orange
Open minded/anything goes
Bottom
This is a compilation from a comparison of various sites who host their own Hanky codes
and represents the most constant showings of different colors and designs. For example,
in some other codes, Mustard represents a Food Fetish rather than what's listed above, but
it wasn't the most commonly found. Also, the above-listed are oriented specifically to play
and kink, not necessarily to sexual interaction.
 
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